How to Boost Your Confidence in Online Dating

How to Boost Your Confidence in Online Dating

Online Dating can be a frightening experience, especially if you haven’t been in a relationship in a long time or have been hurt in one. And it can be extremely difficult to restore your romantic mood after experiencing multiple disappointments or hurts.

However, remember that it is normal to feel a little nervous — in fact, the best people are frequently nervous. Consequently, here are some quick ways to adjust your frame of mind and boost your self-assurance entering online dating.

I’m looking for a sincere and serious man!

Leave Your Expectations at The Door

We are all aware that there is a world of difference between a person’s online date and their actual persona.

 So set aside your expectations and approach the situation with an attitude of “I don’t care what happens” and see what happens.

Of course, abandoning your expectations does not imply that you are willing to accept anything — but in the early stages, it is beneficial to simply let go and enjoy yourself.

Check If They Are Interested

It is a fun exercise that will help you to avoid thinking about your online dating “performance” — and it actually works. To find out more about your date, ask five good questions about them.

Don’t ask them all at once; that’s not fair. Then wait and see what happens. Give them plenty of time to respond to each.

In an ideal situation, they will respond and then ask you about yourself and your life in return.

I’d like to meet a loving, understanding, and supportive man.

If you haven’t gotten a response after five questions, you should go around and observe the situation. This could be because your date is self-absorbed or simply not interested in getting to know you better.

Make it About Them Rather Than About You

It is our own self-perception that causes anxiety: how we look, what we will say, what others will think of us, how we will be judged, and how we will be treated.

A vicious circle exists in online dating because the more we consider ourselves and monitor our actions, the more anxiety we will experience with a new partner. Try to learn everything you can about your date instead.

Of course, it is important that you do not project an air of authority on them by trying to deflect the discussion outwards toward them. This will relieve some of the pressure that is placed on you. You will also come across as a person who is interested and engaged.

And you’ll begin to learn some of the important facts about them that you didn’t know before!


So these are some tips to gain your confidence for your online dating. Don’t ask everything from your partner at once, check if they’re interested, let them understand you and get comfortable.