So, all your efforts of meeting a hot Russian single on the online dating site paid off. You’ve been chatting to this girl for quite some time, and are now wondering how to ask her out. While there is no golden rule, there are a few things you should take into account when asking Russian singles for a date. Luckily, with the tips below, you can’t go wrong.
Don’t Be Shy
You probably know by now that Russian women have strong personalities. However, like most Slavic ladies, Russian singles like when a man takes the lead. If you’ve been chatting for some time now, it’s time to ask her out.
Don’t wait until she mentions something about meeting up… or worse. If you don’t show her that you’re really interested, she might stop communicating with you completely.
Have a Date Location in Mind
One thing to keep in mind if you want to date a Russian woman is that you must come up with first date proposals. Asking her where she wants to go will only give the impression that you’re insecure. Or that you’re not putting too much effort into it.
Whether you want to take her to a movie, a museum, or invite her to a restaurant, say what you have in mind when you ask her for a date.
Hopefully, by now, you know a thing or two about what she likes, so you can pick an appropriate place.
Surprise Her With an Original Invitation
When dating Russian ladies, chances are you’ll have to book a trip to Russia to meet her for the first time. Perhaps you managed up to this point to find out her home or work address. If that’s the case, why don’t you surprise her with an original invitation?
For instance, you can send her a bunch of roses with a card asking her out. Or a box of chocolates and a message.
If you plan to take her to an event, such as a concert, send her the ticket instead of bluntly asking if she wants to come. Your Russian single undoubtedly loves surprises, and such a gesture will win you a few points.
Don’t Pressure Her
If you popped the question, but she seems reluctant, don’t pressure her. International dating can be tough for both of you, and she might have her fears and insecurities.
Instead of insisting on meeting up, show your supportive side and respect her decisions. Maybe she just needs to know you better, so simply wait for her.
Ask Her Out in Her Own Language
Our last tip, if you really want to impress a Russian woman, is to ask her out in her own language. It’s not that hard to learn a few words in Russian, and this will reassure her that you are really interested in something serious.
Don’t worry; she won’t expect you to learn more Russian than you feel comfortable to. However, since she already communicates with you in your language, it would be quite nice to surprise her with such an invitation.